W called as I was taking D's to school.. she had OM's D's weekend bag and wanted to meet me at school so I could take it in. Is she nuts? I told her if she was there when I got there I'd take it in (i knew she wouldn't make it). Sure enough.. got to school.. she wasn't there. Pulled in while I was inside. She took the bag in.. I passed her and said hello.
As I was leaving, she was coming out.. she called. Should've let it roll. She asked why I was being mean.. didn't understand the email.. asked if someone put me up to it.. asked if I was dating someone. I told her she couldn't have it both ways.. she said she wanted it both ways. She said she still loves me.. that her friend told her I still loved her. I said I did, but I couldn't do this anymore. Then we got into it about OM and how she lied about the girls being over there. She said she wasn't a liar and I wasn't going to make her feel like scum. I told her I had to go.. "You made your choice.. have fun with it."
I know.. controlling.. should've let the call roll.
So then I get the following text:
"Not trying to bug you, but jarhead really is a piece of wk. remind me to tell you about it!"
Idiot.. I replied "Wrong address.. I can forward to OM if you'd like" So.. I did.. games I know.
She responded "No. I'm sorry! You made me sad! I hate that this is the way it is. I love you and it hurts when we can't be nice. I don't need you to send it to him. I was venting-you hung up on me. It's not the same. I do miss that. But I'm not scum and I'm a good person and mother. Remember?"
I replied (after a conference call)"I never said you were scum. I know you are a good person and mother."
