I am glad that the conversation went well and I hope you are fine. I wonder if the OW discuss the C with your H and that keeps him around as she says she depends on him. That's not love and not healthy. May be I am wrong I don't think she's going to agree with a D. It will probably shock her since what Sally is said is true, she will probably won't give up her lifestyle because facing the reality is another thing. The mirror puzzles me, because although it is out of guilt why someone would buy something for the house if they intend to leave and sell the house?
