some more thoughts. lwb, right now your h has a fantasy about what life will be like with ow. they both probably have it built up so much in their minds, that there is no way reality can measure up. I can't imagine she has half your grace/understanding/cool headedness, not to mention you are the mother of his children. I think, should they end up together, things won't quite live up to that fantasy.
I know my experience has been different, at least so far. but from what I've read and what I've talked to my friend about, sometimes reality ends up being a huge slap in their faces.
okay, kids are up so gotta run for a bit. will check back later.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
