How Long?

[RedHeadWife]

Oh, guys & gals, bring out the 2 x 4's. I need something !!

Here's the sitch: H has been seemingly unavailable every morning when I try to call (which is his evening) and then calls me when it's about 4 a.m. his time. His explanation is that he has gone to bed and I will admit he can sleep through the phone ringing, but . . . then he says he is getting up so early to work on some stuff he has to have done before he comes home.

I guess it just seems suspicious to me. Like he's up to something in the evenings & then is "checking in" in the early a.m.

Tell me I'm being silly . . . it's just the 'ol "he's done it numerous times before" thing. It's hard once they've cheated, etc. not to jump to conclusions sometimes.