glad you called and glad it was a good conversation, lwb. I'm confused though...you said separation meant free to date...um, isn't that what they are doing, anyway? living with their spouses doesn't seem to have curbed that at all.
I'm also very confused about the IC ending sessions with the ow because she won't give up your h. um, that doesn't happen, either, in my experience. I'm guessing ow gave up on the therapy herself and that is a line she is feeding her h.
on the other hand, the MC would stop MC due to an ongoing affair, but not an IC. (a mc will stop mc sessions because there is no marriage to counsel, essentially, if an affair is ongoing).
just a few thoughts.
I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. but again, wonderfully handled in classic lwb style.
(and I've wanted a mantel mirror for a long time, too. wow, nice going, h. sigh. but does it mean anything?)
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
