Metamorphasis is Here!!!

[mcojh]

Today's events totally changed my attitude, so I thought it deserved a new thread.

CW called today about some kid stuff and I was polite but short. I tried to end the conversation several times. She kept asking if I was crabby or what because I wasn't talking much. The call ended. Two minutes later she called back and said that she forgot to ask me if I had filled out that form yet (the proof of service). I told her I had and my attorney would be sending it to her attorney and then tried to end the call and she went on about how we don't talk. I told her that we were getting divorced and that she should get used to it. I told her we communicate just fine about kid stuff. She asked why we couldn't be friends I gave her the example about a new person in my life not liking me hanging with the CXW.

She told me that if I meet someone that she will be happy for me. She asked if I would be happy for her and I said no. I went on to emphaticlly say no when she told me I was being unfair.

She was blathering on and I told her that all of her lies were too much for me. She then said that she feels that in the last year she has been the most honest with herself and others. I then rattled off about 10 lies that came to mind. She then told me that "one lie isn't worser than another, you have told lies too." I told her I was done talking and hung up.

She came by tonight to pick some stuff. I was cordial but reserved. She was very teary when we got there. She was whining about all of the stress at work etc. I wasn't as sympathetic as I could be. I asked a few questions, very superficial.

I finally said politely she needed to go so I could put S6 to bed. She reallllllly doesn't like the way I am acting towards her. I realllly don't care.