Jenny RCR is right this does take time and im always looking at the stages as well hoping if I could just see a sign of depression- and then I do but it still takes time so in the mean time we figure out how to take care of ourselves better and our kids start forming a new life to some degree with new friends maybe a class or career change we stay busy and try to focus on life instead of H (easier said than done) peace
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