"We always find time to discuss my faults and all I have done wrong in the marriage. When will we ever find time to talk about what YOU have done......"
Exactly, Lwb.
I am just growing so weary of this blame the LBS game. We have barely even touched on the A -- heck, she no longer so much as even acknowledges the d*mn A! -- and I'm still prepared to let it all go if she would show even the least bit of contrition and a willingness to honestly discuss how to move forward, even if we were decide ultimately to end our marriage. But now, I don't know what to do or where to go or how to proceed other than me continuing to stay in limbo and endure being her emotional pinata.