Wife sleeps in a different room, so they know something is not right
This sucks. The even sadder thing on my part is the girls have *stopped* questioning why Daddy fell asleep on the couch. Its been happening so long, its 'normal' to them. That bites. H's fault.
Wow to your last couple days. I am glad you stated your case (not involved) and then will move on. I wonder how she will be when you get home.....