Things change all the time and the change can be good or bad or indifferent. I saw my first H go from not really wanting the kids...to wanting them every second that he could get them (I sometimes think to punish me)...to now he loves them but apparently doesn't really think very highly of them...but still want to spend every second that he can even if he pays no attention to them...I am sure once my son is in college, he won't care what my D does...things just change.
I would love to say that things will change for the better but nobody knows...I hope and pray that they will get better all the way around for your family.
You are getting a lot of wonderful input here. Keep being the great mom you are and your life will be filled with beautiful memories regardless of what happens with your H.
