bnd - you hit it on the head! I so much want to answer their questions...but it is not the right thing to do. I don't find that to be as difficult as watching them cry over him. That is when my anger reaches a really, really bad point....That is when I hate him.

kissak - with all that you have going on - thanks for stopping by. I'm sorry if I seemed harsh in my last posting to you. Your H is really pissing me off. I can't stand the way he is treating you and playing these games with you. He really needs some more baking...or a swift kick in the *ss. In any event - I agree that we can't always hide our emotions. I do fine until my D13 loses it. Sometimes I can hold it in and other times, I can't.

I just tell her that I am human and get sad too. It doesn't seem to make it worse for her, but I do wish I could control my emotions a little better around her.....

Hugs!


w8ing