He said he might bring it up that we talked, because he is going to confront her about the note on the car (weeks ago) and the phone calls to our house, since they have a no contact rule. I would rather he not tell OW that I called, but I was prepared that he might. I am no longer 'worried' that H will be mad at me if he finds out I called him.

And yes, I wonder if OW's H moves out, will my H be the very next one to move out........