H never came back from Iraq

[MichelleLT]

That totally sucks. I guess it really is important to get a lawyer to look out for you. Well, it is one of the things on my to-do list over winter break from grad school.

I wish I'd known about DB when all this happened. It took me months to find Michele's books and this site. I feel like I made too many mistakes in the interim since I also did all the common and predictable and unhelpful patterns of human nature. And it makes me sad that this is so common and predictable. But it is nice not to be alone.