Very good points. Stumped.. I'm checking email.. just want to know when she got it so I can be prepared.. yep.. line has been drawn. Need to live it that way.
Mark.. I understand. I don't necessarily agree though.. and that's fine.
I'm a staunch supporter of "equal parenting" I know it's a little tongue and cheek based on what she's been doing, but I feel comfortable in letting her know. I may be enabling, but I won't feel guilty for leaving her out of something like that. It was also a reaction.. she cut her head open.. called W to let her know. My first thought was "She's going to call at 6 and we'll be at the urgent care.. need to give her a heads up."
You are probably right though.. separate lives.
I think the timing is nice with the letter and all.