Another thread... another dollar

[stumped1245]

Not to be the devil's advocate, but how did you know your W got her email? Did you have a notification set up to notify you when she got it? Or.... are you checking her email still?

Please understand that I'm not trying to make you feel bad, however, you will feel better if you detach yourself from what she does/doesn't do altogether - unless it relates to your Ds.

Besides, you CAN'T control what she does and your wasting your precious life in trying to. Aren't you worth more than that? I believe you are - especially if you cook!.... lol ;-)

Seriously though, you wrote the letter now continue to live your life "AS IF" - especially when it seems the hardest to do, because usually that's when you need to do it the most.

I DEFINITELY know it's much easier to say these things than do them, but it sounds to me as though you're a pretty strong guy and that you'll be able to do this.

If possible - every time you think you're trying to control your W, walk away or end conversations, or whatever interaction you're doing. Separate yourself and figure out why you're trying to control the sitch. 9 times out of 10 it's because you don't want to get hurt and that's understandable. However, knowing it and doing something about it are different. Only you can figure out which it is.

Hang in there & stay strong as you have been!

God Bless!