Hi craig.

It's possible you read my post \:\) or someone elses, i don't know, but maybe you have some advice for me then.

I've been with my H for 10 years. The Romantic glow wore off long ago. I love my husband. i choose to love him. i have chosen to love him through out all the difficult times and the hurt feelings. No matter how his words or actions have hurt me. I choose to love him because I want my marriage. I've lost friendships (people I loved dearly) over far less pain and conflict than this, so I know it is a choice to love him.

For you - what is the distinction between loving someone and being in love with them. I think you make a choice to love, but i can't seem to make myself be in love with him.

I used to come home at the end of the day and look forward to seeing him. I used to miss him while I was working. I used to love being with him. I can't seem to get those feelings back. To me, that's the kind of stuff that goes with being in love.

Just wondering. Thanks! \:\)

Ann

If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown

ann