i just read a post from someone on how loving someone is a choice. they could not understand that. i say look at the people on this bb. we all love our spouses even though our spouses say they do not love us. we choose to put our love on the line. we choose to go through this living hell because we want to have our marriages whole again.we go against societies norm and fight for our spouses. yea, this is crazy. but divorce is crazier, and our spouses need for us to make a stand, even though they don't know it. yea, love is a choice , i choose to love, without the expectations of receiving it in return, at least not for the forseeable future. if love were not a choice nobody would stay married. because the romantic glow wears off. i choose to love. i choose to hope. i choose to pray.

Last edited by craig54; 11/28/07 12:38 AM.

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bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023