I am so mad though that she is so selfish to leave with no room for resolution and its hurting the kids. They stay 85% with me, and dont want to be with her. Their mad and its hard to keep saying your mom is a good person. She is so defiant at the moment, well see, but I gotta say, this board is so important. I cant find hope form anyone else, they all say forget her its over, but here at least there is a bit of light.


Me: 36 W: 36
Kids: 2, B14, B9
Married: 16 yrs
Separated - 10/20
BD - WDB 10-21