Sox, First let me say that my H is a huge Sox fan... and Pats and URI basketball, etc...
Anyway, I was where you are a year ago. I remember telling my H in MC that my needs aren't even considered. What I now know is that my H was at that time unable to focus on my needs. He was too busy confused in his own head.
Maybe this will jsut take time. I think the issue of your needs does need to be addressed at some point. But you need to determine... is he still figuring out himself, or is now as good a time as any...
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
