w8ing- In reference to you being a single parent, your h may not be involved right now...but things may not always be this way. Your H is depressed and unable to think of anyone but himself. How can he be a good parent now with all the guilt he is carrying around. To me, what you wrote just shows that he is in crisis. Now look at things this way...look how much and how quickly things have changed for you and your girls...things will change again...so be prepared.
You are the lucky one and your D's are lucky to have you as well. You are also lucky that you aren't having to fight your H over the time spent with each of you. Don't worry about your H and count your blessings. You will be fine.
