Quote: Ahaaaaa....what I see going on here is that she has been observing your changes and is now doing similar things that you are doing...
I still don't understand this part.
I guess what I meant by this was that when my H began to change was that he started to mimic the behaviors I was showing(from DB). He started to treat me with respect, like I was treating him, he started doing household things for BOTH of us, not just himself, like I was doing, He repeated things I would say, etc. etc. I felt like I had a parrot or a toddler hanging around mimicking my every move. lol
He no longer glared at me or things like that. He softened.
I know it's not the same for everyone here, but that is what I observed when he started to come back to reality.
I think you are doing better and better, so keep up the good baby steps Lanz. And post when you can - miss ya!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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