Oh Ann, what a sweet thing to say! That is about the greatest thing anyone could say to me. There have been times I felt like I was too rough on some people, but if I can help anyone I want to. If I can stop young couple from ending up in the shape my H and I are in, I want to do that also. I wish there were more people that had been married for a long time to talk with. I can't get my H to go to a MC and I don't know anyone off line to talk with that has been married as long as I have and having problems. I think by the time most couples have been married this long, they just keep silent. Some days, like today, I almost feel as though I am living a lie b/c people think we are this great couple, but we aren't. Oh, we don't fight, etc., but still we go to church and put on our "happy faces" and everyone thinks we are just lovely. The sad thing is, I know if I could just be happy, it would thrill my H to death! It would make him the happiest man on earth if I could just show him physical love (sex)and be happy. But, I can't seem to do that.....and it makes me feel very guilty. It eats me up b/c he is a good guy, but he also drives me nuts...as you probably read in my previous post to DomR. I can't seem to feel any attraction toward him and can't make myself start love making with him. Everytime I think about it, it just does something to me.
Anyway, tell me something about yourself. How old are you and what is your stitch? I appreciate you being so kind to me....it really did help my feelings more than you know. Come back and talk more with me.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
