I take their comments with a grain of salt, I know everyone has their own ideas and opin-yines.
{{Note to self: sore spots for Heimy}} I know how you feel about your W acting childish and immature, I felt that way about my H for a long time, and when I started DB'ing I realized maybe I couldn't be married to a person who could not allow themselves to grow and change for the better, or be true to themselves...or maybe this was the true him that I just hadn't seen before...then when he DID really start to change as you have seen in my posts, it hit me hard and made me see who he REALLY was inside, not just the alien that temporarily came out. So I think I would feel the same way you do right now if he had not made these changes within himself. Maybe this is the real her. And not someone you should be married too.
Yep, I get it GD. I was trying to get Heimy to see his deep-rooted feelings which he has actually just mentioned in his last post. I know he sees them now, but is he letting them go...Now that he has written them here, he may??? feel better and move along...So the letter comment? DELETE DELETE DELETE. LOL
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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