Ouch! Thought I was so much stronger!

[Hurtin4certain]

Hey Sue... I know how you feel. My W left me high and dry and I was going to get a tattoo over my heart that said "Never again". I remember wanting to do that to remind me of the pain and to never fall for her again, and just like you, Im in pain again!

So my concern is this... Im afraid my W sees my detachment as a sign that I dont care, that Im off with other girls etc because thats what happened last time. Her LL is acts of kindness so even when I would sent her a thoughtful email or joke, she really ate it up.

Do I still continue to be detached? No calls, no emails etc.? I worried we'll just fall right back into not speaking again.