Divorced, but still hoping for a miracle

[about2bdvorced]

Hey P42! Glad you and your girls had a good Thanksgiving. Me and my girl did too.

Don't expect your ex to warm up to you any time soon. My advice is to not communicate with her at all, period, with the exception of, god forbid, a dire emergency with the kids. No email, no calls, no letters, period. You hit the "lawyer button"...let your attorney handle it.

Not a day goes by that I don't think about my ex...sometimes I get all nostalgic and have flashbacks of the good times; then I remember her nagging me, secretly tape recording me, and lying to my face. Then I look at my 25 yr old blonde GF and thank god the WAW left...

When you think about the OM and your ex, envision her nagging him to take out the trash. Envision him having an affair on her. Visualize him leaving the toilet seat up - a lot...I envision my ex's OM at the point I was at the same time in our R....ready to slit my wrists and saying, "WTF was I thinking!?"

Sounds like you're on the right path, Grasshopper. Rock on!