Hey Nikki - sounds like you are super super busy! That's great!
I hear you on the moving out thing...having given my H the freedom to do as he pleases he appears to be making more of an effort in our R. I too had planned on moving out of our room (at the very least - out of the house certainly crossed my mind) but with him making more of an effort, I wonder if that is what i should do - so torn. Part of me tells me to keep moving away to see what will happen, the other part is lazy, I guess, or I just enjoy the "progress" that is being made. My C, though would suggest that the more I walk away, the more distance I create, the more H will come back.
Clearly I have no advice, but you never know what would happen if you moved out. You don't HAVE to stay out for months. Try a night or two and see what his reaction is. I have left our room to sleep on the couch before and H has come by later with a blanket and slept on the floor next to me - kind of like a "sit in" refusing to leave me in the living room alone. Your H's reaction may really surprise you.
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
