Oh.. the other difference between my situation and yours... my wife doesnt come over wanting to snuggle every night, either.
sigh.

he wants to be with you. If you push him about it, he will pick you.
it just may take him a week of being "out in the cold" to believe that you are serious, about not letting him have both of you.

PS: did you try the "I want you, just as you are right now" tack?

Last edited by Dom R; 11/27/07 09:09 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle