Having met you in real life, I wouldn't think that you are the kind of woman who would attract "rescuers". In spite of my current pathetic situation, I don't think that I am either.
If the headlight on your car fell off and a man pointed it out to you and offered assistance, I would think you would smile and say something like "Thank you so much for pointing that out to me because something bad might have happened. If you could just direct me to the nearest auto parts store, I will take care of it myself right away." Whereas, I would smile and say "Thank you so much. It will be okay . It's been like that for a couple months and nothing bad has happened yet."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
