Met W again 2 days ago this time with our G/daughter,who she has not seen for about a month.G/D commented to me and her Mum how she has seen great changes in W. She said she looks ill and has let herself go.She said her clothes were ill-matched and didn`t fit and that her hair looks a mess. She also commented that W`s memory is very poor. W. asked her the same question 3 times in half an hour. It really pains me to see her like this and I would really love to help her but she seems as distant as ever but still freindly. We sit next to each other on the sofa we even touch hands (several times when stroking the dog), and she still adresses me as "love". She is still obsessed with work and seems to be working at every opportunity.From what she says her quality of life in her new home is not even remotely like the life she had here. She even has a T.V.that doesn`t work and asked if she could take some C.D.`s with her so she could have something to listen to. We have a 50th birthday party of a good freind of ours coming up and this will be the first time that daughter has seen her since seperation.D. still has some anger issues both for her own hurt and from seeing her Dad hurt but she has promised to control her temper and has said she will not "blank" her. Fingers crossed
