H, I really have no good advice. A lot of stuff about detachment / GALing / time / space whatever. I know FOR SURE as they say in the books, if you dont, it will not work. It may work temporarily (in my case every 2 years) but never lasts.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.