Some other things that have contributed.. her disregard for the girls.. She's in college, and I've found out that instead of doing her work, she's been buying papers online. Then she complains about not having money. D5 also told me that on Sunday when W stopped by, they were at OM's house while her friend babysat the kids. OM was elsewhere.
W said they were hanging out with the friend, but she neglected to tell me that they were at OM's house. I kind of felt like she was "cheating" on him by coming to see me.
Who knows.. maybe this will drive her further away.
I just don't want to be her doormat anymore. I've liked the attention I've gotten, but it's a slap in the face when she turns around and goes to him.