new here. Feel like dying

[Dom R]

hiya,

sorry that you did this. (agree, when you dont really agree to his conditions)
I think it will blow up on you, and one of you is going to have a meltdown. You havent really resolved things between you, and what your marriage is supposed to be like.

Cops have to have the whole "authority" thing going on for them.
It's a job, that dictates that you take on a particular type of personality, i think.
particularly if you're in **central la**.

If you move... then he will have a new job. even if its still "cop", it will be different.
I think you would see a new side of him.

BTW: i still think he's wrong to demand hou mow the lawn.
Anyone knows, in a "traditional" type marriage, it's the man that mows the lawn. the woman takes care of the INSIDE of the home