Originally Posted By: jarhead
Thanks all.. I have her passwd, so I've debated deleting it, but I feel I have to set expectations.

I was reading Dobson's book and used it for inspiration. Reading it made me feel stupid for what I've been putting up with.

I feel this is the best place for me to be. Set boundaries/expectations and see how she responds. I honestly feel like I need to put some space between us.


Exactly!! Im glad. this is the best place for you. Reality check for her!!

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.