jaBRWok, Both options have the same potential outcome. I have been here on the boards for seven years. I have seen this same script replay weekly. She can still have her space in the house. Move into another room and make yourself scarce. You will know how far ahead she has planned by how pissed she is at you for staying. Call your counselor on the carpet for their bias also if you are up to it. Keep yourself centered.
By the way, I fell for a "Trial separation". Anyone else been duped?