Your insight on the C is what I have on Cs. H and I tried it, after I confronted about his 1st A, even though he doesn't believe C does any good. Well, I kinda agree....
Yes, change the time you call the kids, but not by too much. It can affect them too and you want to as little of that as possible. Pretend you are not aware of W's C session and yes, do go out to the mall, or fill the car up with gas, anything that will give you a small break and change your routine.
FYI, the mood swings are also normal and very hard for us, the sane ones to keep up with.
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
