Man this is hard as heck. I went to my mothers with her (she drove separately with the boys) for T-Day, everything was ok, no signs of r, but when I saw her this weekend for our b9 parade, I pressured her to the power of 10x. Now im in a pickle, and my new coach Chuck said go back to basics, dark, wait. The trigger point for me this weekend was she said as I thought things were good " I will not get together with you" and I panicked. He said thats a test, so we'll have to see. I send a apology and card, dumb thing, but will have to wait and see. Thanks guys, K