I am a little confused, so forgive me if you have already mentioned this somewhere else...

Why exactly are you giving your Husband back his ornaments?

Did he ask you for them?

And why are you doing this stuff with your children?

Going through a Divorce is hard enough, and with MLC even worse, and then to add kids to the mix, it is a horrible situation.

Your children do not need to be so involved.

This is your Divorce, not theirs.

They only need to know things that pertain to them directly.

They need to know that Mommy and Daddy love them.

I have read too many posts here that involved the kids and the parents making their kids a sounding board.

I am NOT saying you are doing that, I am just cautioning you to not give your kids too much information.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.