Thanks. yes - I did not mention my phone in any way. It's kinda funny that after that and a bright moment or two W retreated into moodiness.

Sorry about the hair! I am afraid of that since when I go home I use the master bath and our bedroom... Trying just to shave in the dark :-)

Tonite I will change the time I call the kids saying I have plans. I am only going to the mall to get out for a bit... She has a C session tomorrow and I wonder how it will affect her mood. The last time I did that she got grumpy with me.

On the C -- I am afraid she is nothing but a facilitator. You need to make you happy, agreeing with wahtever she says, never challenging her, etc. I would agree that W needs to be happy, but I am afraid that the advise is that she can only do that ourtside of the M. Of course I am paranoid!