I really need some input on this one. I am thinking about writing a letter to my H. There are a lot of things I have done over the past several years that have contributed to our sitch. I feel it is time to let my H know I am taking responsiblity for them and I am truly sorry. My concern is that he will see it as me trying to manipulate things. That is really not my intention. It is something I feel I must do. Please share your thoughts.