Sorry for your recent bout of emotions about the Match thing.
But, I wonder why you are looking at this at all. I say this only because I have seen how far you have come, and want to go. It's more than letting go. You have done so much, you are so strong and wonderful....I want you to cut the emotional ties he still has. We all have that to some degree.....
I don't know if he does this to bait you, irritate you, or just because he's a prick and wants to date and it has nothing to do with you. It shouldn't.
You were a good wife. Who cares about the socks. You know the truth. That should be enough.
What I DO care about is that he still baits you, with his little comments of still "looking for someone like you"....he makes awful comments about boobs and Playboy in front of your daughter, his Rat strips in front of your son, and the Rat is using your SS#. THOSE things bother me. Those things impact your life and the life of your kids. Not his Match profile, sweetie.
Back to your life. Back to dropping the axe when his dysfunctional, abusive, narcissitic ways start to ooze into your life or the kids. Zero tolerance.
First thing you MUST start believing: You were a WONDERFUL wife. You were an AMAZING wife. You know the TRUTH. You are a CATCH.
Given the life your H threw away, and the one he leads now (which is fit for Jerry Springer), do you give a rats a$$ about what he writes to some cyber woman about you?
