It totally sucks that your W thinks you did it. To be so falsely accused would really upset me, too.
Joie
I'm not as upset as you might think.
I know that I didn't send the email. And I know that I didn't create this situation by inviting shady and unseemly people into our marriage. So I really had nothing to do with this particular incident. So why get upset? It's a waste of energy.
PS: Joie, husband may want to put you on the football team. You better start stretching...
I know that I didn't send the email. And I know that I didn't create this situation by inviting shady and unseemly people into our marriage. So I really had nothing to do with this particular incident. So why get upset? It's a waste of energy.
Exactly! Next topic...
How are your kids doing, Mark? Haven't heard much about them from you lately. Do they 'get' what's up between you and W? How are they handling it? Just wonderin'...
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
Sorry I wasn't around for this yesterday... wth is going on with her?? She clearly doesn't know you at all. She is trying to shift the focus off of her A and on to something that you supposevely did that she has no evidence of... pretty pathetic!! I would keep even more distance from her at this point, she is not the person your married, nor do you want to be with someone like this at this point.
Im in for the game by the way!! I wasn't a cheerleader though, didn't like them actually! I use to sing and dance that's about it!
One more thing.. My H is headed your way on thursday!! when he told me he was going to ohio I nearly fell on the floor and almost said 'oh I know someone in ohio... duh.. don't worry caught that before I said it..lol.
Take care Mark. Keep me updated.
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Mark, Kudos to you for such detachment. That would sure bother me.
Football? That's where the guys try to get the ball into the giant pitchforks at the end of the field for extra points?? Just kidding ... but that's an exact quote from my D.
How are your kids doing, Mark? Haven't heard much about them from you lately. Do they 'get' what's up between you and W? How are they handling it? Just wonderin'...
They sense something is up. Wife sleeps in a different room, so they know something is not right.
Forgot to mention, but when we had the R/D talk, I asked her what she was planning to tell the kids. It was the usual, "things have not been right between us, etc." I told her that in the event a kids asks me why we are getting a D, I will tell them: "Mom is not happy, and she thinks that divorcing me will make her happy." Um... she did not like this at all. But she (seemed to) accept it. She does not want to be the "bad guy," but right now, that's exactly what she is.
Wife sleeps in a different room, so they know something is not right
This sucks. The even sadder thing on my part is the girls have *stopped* questioning why Daddy fell asleep on the couch. Its been happening so long, its 'normal' to them. That bites. H's fault.
Wow to your last couple days. I am glad you stated your case (not involved) and then will move on. I wonder how she will be when you get home.....
yeah, good guess.... as ususual, I am traveling for work this week.
I do not want the kids to think for a minute that it's normal for parents to sleep in separate rooms. #1 knows something is up. #2 is optimistically suspicious. #3 is happy because mommy sleeps in her room...
