before I forget ... I was flipping through the channels and guess what movie was on...JARHEAD...LOL.. I laughed out loud.. my H says what's so funny.. I just said..oh nothing.. it was hysterical!!
i cannot believe that she is actually letting them spend the night at om house.. That is just not right!!! She needs to snap out of it...She is a first class loser.. and forgetting about her own child's bday.. ummm I don't want to type what Im thinking about her right now????? Is there any other day more important!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So there you have.. Jar.. you can go on with your life and find something worth being with, she is truly a disturb person. I know how hard it is for the kids, but something has got to give.
You cannot continue to play these games of hers on and off with the affection, meanwhile she's probably screwing the om.. im sorry for being so blunt but she is winner.
You need to find a seperate life away from her. It could be just going out on a regular basis when you don't have the kids or just stop with the hugs and stuff with her.. don't give her hope that will just string you along even longer.
I worry that this will make your crash harder than before with her empty words and gestures.
Take care my friend and take care of you.
tal
ps.. love the goonies,was my favorite movie at one time!!
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.