His contribution (from my point of view) is that he takes care of me and our house. I'm wondering how that sounds to all of you...I think I am appreciative but maybe not enough. He does the laundry, runs all the errands for us (prescriptions, vehicles need work, pick up stuff from grocery, etc.) and just generally is a "house husband". We are working (slowly) on redecorating our house and he has lots of "little projects" going but it's hard sometimes to finish them when money gets tight.
aha... so basically, he's a "bored housewife" then.
oh, PS:
I think he smelled a setup, with your email. he guesses it was you. that's probably why he suddenly has changed his behaviour.
you "played" with him. he "played back". possibly.
So, maybe just let it go, dont make any assumptions about him based on your email exchanges, and just treat your situation as "you are having problems with your marriage", and that never happened?
Last edited by Dom R; 11/27/0706:04 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
