This is kind of an aside, and entirely personal, but I think it's fascinating that so many LD or even ND women still have a need to be sexually desired.
I call it "I want you to think of me as sex-y; but I just don't want to have to have any actual sex with you."
Or, "I like to be chased, but I don't especially like being caught."
It's really no different than people being happy when their stuff gets appraised high on Antiques Roadshow even though they have no intention of selling it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
