Letting her know that you have already made your decision to wait and support her decision might allieviate some of that stress.
Waiting is a decision it is a choice.
If you agree with what I wrote, then find a way to let her know that. Especially about supporting whatever choice she might eventually come to, and try and let her know that there is no time pressure to make that decision. Spur of the moment decisions usually bite us in the butt.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 11/27/0705:46 PM.
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