You were the first to post to me back when I started in newcomers 2 years ago- LisaC-I just wanted to thank you for that support then. I too am "piecing" and experiencing the same things. My H drives me crazy with how he just came home and took over basically. We have had alot of talks about this. He has came home and left twice since he oringinally come home. Each time it gets harder. His stuff is everywhere and my things and the kids stuff has lost ground her in the house. I totally understand where you are coming from- I too struggle for the answers on how to handle it. I don't want to nag but??? Youknow we both have changed alot since they left and we are new people and they just don't realize all that entails.
Don't lose yourself- You have worked hard for you. Hopefully we can both find some answers to work through this.
Love,Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
