Letting her think that this is ALL her decision is another stress upon her. Silly as that may sound.

Letting her know that you have already made your decision to wait and support her decision might allieviate some of that stress.

Waiting is a decision it is a choice.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet