UCW are you okay with you supporting the both of you? What does he contribute to the relationship?

I agree that you need to work on you first and foremost. That is what I am doing.

One thing my C said last night was that I am learning to talk, it is yet unseen whether my H will be able to listen when I am able.

Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011