Hound - Our stories are almost identical with the excpetion of the sex. My wife has also been hitting the wine hard which accounts for some of the big roller coaster dips. You are making SERIOUS progress, do not give up. You know that FLA thing was bullsh*t. She is just trying to get you to lose your cool.
My bet is that if you make no contact, she will call you within 24 hours. Give it a shot.