Originally Posted By: undercoverwife
Why should he look at porn when I am here and willing...


there's a difference between "willing" and "eager". a very big difference.

"willing" has the implication of, "i'll go along with it, if you do all the work".

Whether you mean that or not... if that's the feeling he's picked up from you... it can be a major turnoff.

You may need to be less passive in that department.




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Thank you all for listening and talking to me...I need the diversion tonight.

you're welcome.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle